How to strengthen your love relation

If you don’t see, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t exist: love



In this fantasy world it’s very common to fall in love and it’s very common to get misunderstanding with your loved one too. Over expectation is one of the major cause that lead to breakups in relations but the conflict is that the love can’t last without any expectations.

This blog is dedicated to all lovers who wish to strengthen their love relations. Now let me take you to those psychologically tactics & tips to strengthen your love relations.

In a paper write three expectations that you always expect from your lover. In the same paper write three expectations that your lover should not expect from you at any cost. Both male and female have to prepare this kind of letter and exchange themselves. Once exchanged never give chance to your lover to view their paper again. It is often necessary you need to take a look of paper of your partner to ensure are you fulfilling the expected expectations and expecting the expectations within the limits.


Simple format to write this kind of letter.

You need to take some time (one or two days) to think about the expectations before you write them on paper as it is going to be the final assault to prevent the breakups. List should not exceed more than three. If the list exceed more than three then it may lead to over expectations so it is mandatory to follow the given constrains.


By giving and getting this kind letter you are making your lover to understand your plus and minus without having any serious talks. He /She could easily balance you well if they took those exceptions to their heart & mind.

Some tips to strengthen the love relation.


Studies have shown that affectionate touch actually boosts the body’s levels of oxytocin, a hormone that influences bonding and attachment. In a committed relationship physical intercourse should not be the only method to express love intimacy. Regular affectionate touch, holding hands, hugging, or eye contacts is also equally important. It is important to find out what your partner really likes. Unwanted touching or inappropriate overtures can make the other person to end up in tense and retreat.

Make your partner comfortable with you. Be a capable person and make your lover to say “I like myself when I am with you”. Be a caring shoulder to balance the stress or failures of your partners. Respect each other to the core. Be polite to express the love.

It’s not necessary you need to spent more time in meetings and phone calls to maintain the good love. Perhaps it only disturbs the day to day activists and increases the stress. Plan to spend quality time together that doesn’t disturb your busy schedule or goals. Build the skill of having playful communications with each other which helps to get rids of worries and increase the energy level.

Healthy love relationships are built on give and take principles only .Argues, quarrels and ego never lead to good relation. Be well-mannered to express the reasons and their causes. A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve your life in all aspects. Have a good love (lover) in your life.


  1. Saravanan wrote
    at 9:14 PM - 5th January 2010 Permalink

    Nice work da….

  2. Shashank wrote
    at 8:36 PM - 27th January 2010 Permalink

    super duper hit man.. u wrote very practical.. go on..

  3. shahi wrote
    at 9:55 PM - 1st February 2010 Permalink

    U have written the blog like how experienced person do!!
    Ur words are so true!!
    Keep it up!!

  4. sharu wrote
    at 8:37 PM - 2nd February 2010 Permalink

    lol 😀 shaktiiiiiiii !!! how many gals did u lov to write tis huh huh

  5. Arun wrote
    at 11:56 PM - 2nd February 2010 Permalink


    One can clearly see the experience you had before writing this post.. Hmm …

    Its not necessary to spend time in phone calls… busy schedule or goals. – Exactly what I keep telling to my girlfriend 😛 .. 😉

  6. ers wrote
    at 8:29 PM - 27th February 2010 Permalink

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